Random Act of Kindness
Posted by spillay on April 28, 2008
I feel very lucky this morning to have witnessed exactly that - A Random Act of Kindness. It was a simple act, but one that has even given even me, a witness to the act - a warm and fuzzy feeling. This morning, I feel lucky to be living in a world knowing that kindness is not always politically or commercially motivated. Ohh… how I only wish I could witness this more often….
This is what happened:
It was Monday morning assembly as usual at my children’s school. But, unlike the Mondays we have been having since school started this year, this morning was an exceptionally cold morning (Yes-autumn is finally here in Melbourne, Australia). As I stood there, in my usual spot, watching the (primary) school kids take part in this weekly tradition, I was silently patting myself on the back for ensuring that both my boys were appropriately dressed for the weather. Judging from the number of kids (and some parents) who were only in single layer and short sleeves, I reminded myself that not everyone checks the meteorological website every morning (like I do) or listen to the weather forecast before school.
This is when it happened. The act of kindness. A teacher, Mr M, took his jacket off and put in around one of his students, who incidentally was in short sleeves and in single layer. The boy was standing beside him and no doubt would have commented on how cold he was feeling, which I assumed had prompted this selfless act from his teacher. From where I stood, I could see the boy’s face glow with gratitude and pride, from probably feeling very thankful and lucky at the same time. That was it. A small and simple act. But the cascading effect, I imagine, will go a long, long way. It has already, with me.


April 28, 2008 at 2:44 pm
That is really a special thing you witnessed. Having been a teacher in Singapore, I know that there is always that “barrier” between teachers and children there - a different sort of culture I guess. So you and your boys are lucky to be part of a genuinely warm culture
April 28, 2008 at 2:57 pm
@ Bavani: Yes - we are truly lucky
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April 28, 2008 at 6:43 pm
Your experience brings a big big smile to my face not only for the fact that there are so many kind and giving people in the world but also for the fact that it was a teacher showing a child how its done… to me if more teachers were to do that the cascading effect of teaching the next generation the right way is immense
Can’t stop grinning!
April 29, 2008 at 2:13 am
Hi Spillay, I just stumbled onto your blog today and really like it. I also love the thought and act of acts of kindness. My mom called me last week telling me she was excited because she’d done a random act of kindness so I asksed her what she did and she told me that as soon as her neighbor had left for work, their trash can blew over so she went and picked up all the trash that had blown over. Then she said now since she told me, it wasn’t random.
I told her it was and that I asked. She was so happy and then felt bad because she told me. I couldn’t let her feel bad.
Joy
http://joyerickson.wordpress.com/
http://parents2parents.org/
April 29, 2008 at 9:14 am
@ SanityFound: I agree with you! With so many “wrongs” in the world, every little “right” is a BIG DEAL!!! Let’s celebrate them all!
@ Joy: Thank you for dropping by
. God bless your mum! She has done more good to the world than she realises……
April 29, 2008 at 9:42 am
Thanks for dropping the comment about this on my blog.
Sometimes we don’t realize how such a small act can have such a big impact.
The teacher has no idea his action put a smile on the faces of people literally thousands and thousands of miles away from Australia.
Thanks for sharing!
April 29, 2008 at 10:40 am
@ Hmks: Thanks for dropping by
. I didn’t even think of it that way - that a small act done in a small school all the way here in Melbourne, Australia,… has now had impact,.. in other parts of the world. Wow!
April 30, 2008 at 2:13 am
How wonderful to have witnessed such kindness. May we all practice little acts of kindness to all who cross our path.
April 30, 2008 at 7:58 am
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April 30, 2008 at 10:33 am
Thank you for “stumbling” upon my website and leaving a comment, Spillay. (Though, I don’t actually believe in “accidents”.) We are all connected. And your comment then brought me to your website, which I have also enjoyed experiencing and am the better for by your sharing. I look forward to visiting again soon as well. And I invite you to visit me again soon and often. Thank you.
namaste,
Roldan
http://www.on-common-ground.com
May 7, 2008 at 12:47 pm
simple acts, lots of morals..lovely.